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This blog was created in order for me to brag about my perfect son. :) A lot of friends and family members are not close enough to see Tyson everyday so I update this blog every few days [if not more] in order for all of you to "watch" him grow and keep up with his learning and accomplishments. Hope you enjoy!!

Your 2 Year Old

Two-year-olds give the biggest hugs, flash the biggest smiles, and yes, throw the loudest, most spectacular tantrums. Because they live in the moment, their feelings are especially transparent. It's tempting to want to keep things happy for your child at all times. But it's also important for her to experience emotions like sadness, frustration, and anger without always being "rescued" by Mom or Dad, so she can learn to cope better with small setbacks.

Monday, May 25, 2009

Happy Birthday Tyson...AGAIN!!!

ok i'll admit i have been very veyr bad at updating the blog lately. I promise i'll try to get better. Just so much has been going on lately it's been hard. Not counting that uploading pictures can be very time consuming and annoying.

But since last post we celebrated Tyson's first birthday...AGAIN! this time in southern california with his family and friends down here. THIS party was pretty expensive. Well the party itself wasnt too bad but the ideas that Justin and I wanted for the house was expensive because the timeline sped up a little bit. Originally we were going to have the party at a park, then a friends house, then it ended up at our house. WELL we had a lot of things we wanted to change and decorate in order for the house to look more..."homey". The reason it sped up was because we especially wanted all of this before everyone came to the house. I mean plenty of the people had seen the house before but a lot, especially some of Justin's family hadn't seen it at all and we wanted to make a good impression.

So let's see everything we did.... well when I was gone in Northern California for the two weeks Justin had the idea that he wanted to buy a pool. (if you know Justin, he always has an idea). Well he told me that he already bought an above ground pool but would wait until I came home to put it up. Well anyone that knows Justin also knows he can be pretty darn impatient or shall we say compulsive. Well low and behold I come home and not only is there a pool but an entire two story deck to go with it. I am baffled. Our backyard looks a mess because this deck is hardly put up, wood everywhere. Basically an entire mess with only 3 weeks until the party. Long Story short, with the awesome help of friends, more then once, the deck was put up nicely and the backyard was clean by the time of the party. We bought some nice trees and plants and Justin and his friend did some gardening and made everything pretty. Justin filled up the 9,000 gallon pool. (yea i can't wait to see this water bill). The gardeners came and cut this huge treee/plant/bush and removed this huge tree stump which expanded the backyard by a ton. Justin also tore down this fence that seperated the backyard from the side yard because it was practically falling apart anyways, so that also gave us plenty of more room. Justin put up some misters, we bought new outside chair furniture and the backyard was ready to decorate. Inside we bought a bunch of new frames and printed out pictures of our family and families and put them up by the entry. We had Ty's crib finally so we fully decorated Ty's room, wallpaper and everything... which looks amazing by the way. And we super cleaned everything to look sparkling.

As far as the preperation for the actual party we rented two big tables with umbrellas for the backyard, borrowed a long table for the food, and got tons of safari decorations as that was the theme. We also made our own fruit platters and cheese and cracker platters. I was so nervous for people to show up. The day of we woke up super early to clean up everything and make sure everything was good. Justin was gonna take the dogs to the groomer so we wouldnt have to worry about them. Well only one could go so he had to take the other one to his parents house. I'm assuming after he did that his mother helped him go get the wonderful BBQ food she had ordered for us. The only thing is, Justin somehow told her there were going to be 80 people when there were really only half of that. so we had LOTSSSSS of food. Not counting all the food we had sitting out to snack on. It was already one when they came which was the time the party was suppose to start but luckily the only person that had showed up then was Justin's cousin Corey which I was thanking God for becuase he was helping me a lot with Tyson while I still set up everything.

People started showing up and of course "The house looks really nice". Yes all the time and money for the 5 words we had wanted. We had a bounce house that Justin bought for the not so many kids we invited and a sno cone machine with three different flavors (all Justin's ideas and creations of course). We had plenty of seating, and mostly plenty of food. Well considering it was pretty hott outside, even with the misters we installed, most of the party stayed inside for the most part. SO the misters and tables and umbrellas and chairs didnt get much use. Considering there was probably only 4 kids, the bounce house didnt get much use either. The pool and deck definitely got no use, so pretty much out of all our "re-decorating" the picture frames got the most use. lol. who would have thought. A lot of people showed up though so it was definitely a good turn out. So many people just love Tyson and I know I say this a lot but he is sooo lucky to have so many people around him that love and care for him so much. He was being passed around so much I hardly held him the entire party. He entertained some of the guests for like 30 minutes just climbing in and out of the chair my dad got him. He would climb up, sit down, clap and smile really big, and climb down. Turn around and do it all over again.....over and over again!!! His friends Damien and McKenzie were there so he played with them a lot with his toys. He got to eat sno cones and lots of crackers too.

When it was time for cake, we sat him in his high chair and everyone crowded around him and we sang hapy birthday to him. It was way past his naptime so at first he was really cranky but once we all started singing he started to smile. It was so cute becuase after we were done he started clapping which was so cute so everyone then laughed. Well this time, instead of stuffing his face into the cake and making a hige mess, he HARDLY touched it. I literally had to shove icing in his face so I could get a cute picture. Maybe he had stage fright with 40 people looking at him waiting for him to do something. I know this part made Justin a little sad because I know he wanted us to get a great picture like we got at his other party. OH AND DONT GET ME STARTED WITH PICTURES... so its cake time I'm trying to get these cute pictures and MY CAMERA HAS NO MORE SPACE.... i had only taken like 5 pictures the entire party...how could this be? so the whole time we're singing and waiting for him to dump his face in the cake im taking a picture them scanning through old pics trying to erase some to take some more. It was horrible becuase I did miss some good pictures. SO many people had their cameras though so they HAVE to send me their pics. After cake Tyson was so tired, he hung out for a little longer but then he took a nap. The only thing is i put him down for a nap BEFORE he opened his presents. So pretty much everyone left before he even opened his gifts. I felt bad becuase no one got to see him open what they had bought him.

After he woke up only Justin and My friends were left so we all sat outside and watched Tyson open his gifts. He got so many cute things. From a sponge bob sprinkler, to pool toys, to beach toys, to spoons and forks, books books and more books, clothes, and two pair of nike Jordan shoes. lol. He even got a swing which was absolutely perfect because our new deck had an extension with hooks specifically for a swing. Of course we put that up right away and tested it out and of course it was a winner. He loved it.

NOW i still have one more project to make the birthday finally complete and thats make my thank you cards to send to everyone. If you know me then you know I like to make everything myself. Being that I only have so little pictures on my camera I dont have many to choose from so hopefully I can get some people to send me pictures quick so I can choose one for the thank you card, otherwise the one I want out of my bunch will have to work. But I want to thank EVERYONE that made this party possible and for being there and celebrate for Tyson during this milestone. Although he won't physically remember it, it'll be fun telling him about it when he's older and i'm glad he was surrounded by so much love. Next year we'll be more low key.

Enjoy the few pics I have














Sunday, May 10, 2009

HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY

This Mother's Day is in loving memory of my grandmother, Tyson's great grand mother, who passed away just a few days ago
Artie Ruth Beall
October 2, 1933 to May 7, 2009

Friday, May 8, 2009

I'm a TODDLER

since I finally have some extra time on my hands guess i'd grace you all with some wonderful pics of Tyson's first birthday. We went up north to celebrate his birthday. I have a lot of friends with kids and figured since it is a kid's birthday probably should have a lot of kids.
The day started out (technially weeks before) at 6am when I had to pick Justin up at the airport by 8:30am. I drove up a week before and since Justin had work and finals he stayed hom the week to study. I picked him up and previously had remembered that I had forgotten my high chair back in LA. We stopped by Wal-Mart to pick up a cheap one that we could return after the party. Of course we had to have a king's throne to decorate. We then had to run to party city and pick up a dozen and half balloons as well as some extra stuff we needed to decorate.

I was stressed out about getting a spot at the park because it's a very nice park on a very nice day. Of course we got to the park at 11 and there was no one there. Gave us time to run to get something to eat as well as money to pay the clown and lion we got for the kids. But then OF COURSE we got back and had to rush to set everything up before people showed up at 1pm. I mean on top of that people calling and texting left and right.

My mom had the birthday boy though so at least that was one less worry while we had to set up. So she calls on her way and realizes she forgot the potatoe salad at home and had to go all the way back. Mind you her home is about 25 miles away from where the party was. People started showing up and there was NO birthday boy! Luckily I at least got to bring some of the food and some toys for the kids to play with. So all of a sudden there a friends and kids at the park and my mom has fruit and veggie platters and TYSON. I aske her to ring Ty to the park at least before she has to pick up the cake from Safeway.



She did that and the party began. But hey it was 1:30 and only 3 friends and 4 kids down. I was happy because it gave me more time to setup but stressed because I felt like no one was going to show up. Well the birthday boy was there at least so had to at least entertain him since he decided to get shy around all the people. We stuck him in his birthday chair with toys and food and he was set. So everyone started showing up around the same time when I realized "Where is my mom?". She dropped off Tyson and the food but she had all the stuff to start cooking the hot dogs and the ice so all the drinks were warm. None of my family had shown up at this time either.

Finally around 2:30 my mom shows up with the cakes as the lion gets there and is slowly setting up (of course dressed as a real man at this point). Family come in one by one and as we begin to finally cook some real food (besides rice cakes, chips, PB&J sandwiches, and fruit). From the parking lot we then see a clown and lion walking towards the party. Some kids are happy, some already crying. Tyson.... just eating non chalantly with no clue what day it is nor that all of this is for him. They begin their show and not to be mean, but it was VERY corny. Since I had scared half the kids, they didn't want to come close to the clown or lion so only a few (and by few I mean like 3) participated in his games which made everything I guess a little more amusing for the adults.



The show was about an hour and 15 minutes. It consisted of birthday presents for the birthday boy, educational interactive games for the kids to participate in, magic show, and balloon animals. They gave Tyson this big glasses to wear that looked so funny on him. He actually kept them on for a long time too during the show. Tyson was in his chair for most of the event until the end he finally wasn't shy to walk around. The lion took some pictures with the kids and Tyson and they were on their way. Now it was time to bring out the cake and sing "Happy Birthday". A few days befor ehis Birthday we recieved this coupon in the mail for "Buy a 1/4 sheet cake or bigger

and get a 4x4" cake for free. This was perfect because I was planning on having a tiny cake for Tyson just to stick his face in and mess up himself. We ordered those two and an extra cupcake cake for the kids only because they look so cool. So I bring out the madagascar cake (his party was safari themed) and the cupcake cake but where is Tyson's cake? My mom forgot it while rushing for everything else at the store. I was a little mad but luckily the cupcake cake had this little section of 4 cupcakes I could just give Ty for himself.

We gathered around Tyson and started singing Happy Birthday. I think this was the first time he was around so many people with all eyes on him and everyone singing (i mean where else would this all happen besides his birthday...lol). He had the biggest smile on his face. I'm glad my friend let me use her video camera becuase besides his birth I dont have Tyson on film at all. How ironic both times are on the same day.

After singing Happy Birthday of course it was time for the borthday boy to stick his face in his cake. I handed him the 4 cupcakes and the laughs begin. He immediately just sticks his face in the cake as if he knew that's what everyone was expecting. It was the most adorable thing I have ever seen. We left him with the cupcake/frosting heaven and he went to town. I dont even think he realized it was food and he could eat it. It was like he was just shoving his face in the icing the whole time. My mom was freaking out "Ashley he can't breathe" becuase he had frosting ALL over his face including his nose. I just laughed b/c I knew he was having so much fun. He then tried to start throwing the cupcakes on the ground but he has so mcuh frosting on his hands, everything was just sticking. We then decided it was time to clean him up and attempt to clean the highchair (b/c remember we were going to take it back). It was a a mission trying to get all that cake and frosting off hsi hands and face not mentioning it was dying him blue. We opened all all of presents, cleaned up,stuffed the high chair back in the box and was out the park by 5pm. Gave Justin and I just enough time to stop back at Wal-Mart and back to Oakland by 6:15pm to catch his plane home. I havent gotten the chance to mail the Thank You cards yet (dont worry they're coming) but I wanted to thank everyone that was able to come and celebrate this special time with Tyson. He enjoyed himself and I hope you all enjoyed yourself and he's so lucky to have so many people around him that love and care for him so much.

SO many that Birthday Party number 2 is just around the corner. Hopefully I'll be a little more organized. This one is at our house in LA with LA family and friends. AHHHH let the wildness begin!

















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